Guiding Beliefs and Philosophy

We Work With Conscious Parents and Others Who Love Kids
We work with conscious parents and professionals who love, live and work with children, typically 4-13 years old. Our innovative methods have been successfully utilized with spirited children either diagnosed with ADHD, oppositional defiant disorder, attachment disorder, post traumatic stress anxiety, sensory integration challenges, high functioning autism or exhibiting similar behavior.

We welcome parents and professionals that have an open mind and are ready to:

• Embrace intensity as a gift
• Welcome personal growth
• Learn and use holistic health techniques which can eliminate or reduce the need for stimulant drug prescriptions for children
• Commit to the strengths of the child and themselves
• Cultivate self-esteem
• Release old patterns and habits
• Accept and teach personal responsibility
• Think outside of the box
• Commit to focusing on and rewarding positive choices, actions and behaviors

We provide practical and holistic tools for parents and professionals to help children manage and channel their energy in positive ways. Our goal is for the child to see him or herself as whole, complete and successful even in small ways. By doing so this builds and the child begins to manifest successful experiences consistently and in progressively bigger ways. For perhaps the first time, the child experiences the positive impact he or she is capable of making in the world. Once the child has this experience they have tapped into their true power. This opens the door to a new beginning. At the Center for Family Love, our mission is to help restore harmony between the parent and child so that a deep, lasting bond can be created.

Expected Results

When you commit to applying the methods and tools you learn with the Center for Family Love, you can expect to see desirable and sustainable changes in the intense child.

There may be a period of adjustment for you and the child, which is common when learning any new skill. What you put into it, you get out of it. The results are up to you. They can happen with less struggle and effort than you currently experience. Watching your child flourish is well worth the effort.

Today is the day you can open the door to new possibilities and see the magnificence of your child in a brand new way.

To get started, visit the products or coaching page… or for more information, contact info@centerforfamilylove.com by email or call 608-850-6437.

Tami Gulland,
Founder & Family Coach

Tami Gulland is the author of the groundbreaking book “Embracing Your Spirited Child: A Transformational Guide for Parents of Children with ADD/ADHD, ODD, PTSD and Attachment Disorder.”

Tami has discovered through her family coaching and personal experiences that while it may not be apparent, these children are naturally quite gifted, yet often misunderstood. They have a heightened sensitivity to their own feelings, the energy of others and to the world around them. Often acting out what they feel, their challenging behavior masks their true nature. Because their unique wiring is part of their divine design, they are also referred to as spirited children or Spirited Souls™. (Spirited Soul™ is a term used to help understand the blessing of these children (and adults) who are keenly perceptive and dynamic.)

Tami has worked with parents all over the country who have struggled with the intensity, challenges and behavior of spirited children. Having faced the challenges of parenting spirited children and being one herself, Tami learned what it takes to create lasting transformation. She founded the Center for Family Love, an online resource to provide success strategies and innovative resources, for parents of spirited children to help them restore harmony and heartfelt connection in their home.

Tami Gulland has been called a facilitator of transformation. She is the pioneer of an educational movement unlike any other – to enlighten parents and children alike about the unique wiring and gifts of spirited children.

Tami was born into the world a Spirited Soul™. As is the case with many spirited children, Tami was very active, naturally inquisitive and always on the move. Because of this, people had a hard time understanding and accepting her as she was. She even struggled to understand and accept herself. For years she tried to be anything other than her true nature. She pretended to be like everyone else, but the truth was she had unique abilities and sensitivities that made her different from her peers. It took her many years, but the more she learned about herself, the more she began to understand. What some might call different, others would consider exceptional.

Much of what she didn’t understand about herself, she quickly discovered when she became a parent. As a parent she had to address the unique demands of raising a child diagnosed with ADHD and another who is also very sensitive.

In an effort to help her children, she tried dozens of things, including different healing approaches, natural techniques, alternative remedies and parenting methods – from mainstream to nonconventional — to establish a healthy, loving foundation for her children, create a calmer, closer family connection and experience peace in her heart.

As her parenting journey continued, she began to uncover more and more of her special gifts. Tami learned she was talented in ways that were not necessarily common or mainstream. Through her relationship with her son and daughter she began to recognize her own history as it was reflected back to her through her children. Tami grew to realize that she was very intuitive and gifted in understanding, communicating and working with energy, angels and people.

With a passion to help other Spirited Souls™, she studied the Nurtured Heart Approach, became a certified family coach, Angel Therapy Practitioner, Medium and learned numerous energy psychology tools and techniques to carry her mission forward.

Because of Tami’s life experiences and abilities, she can instinctively relate to her children and the spirited children of her clients in ways others can’t. As a family coach, she uses what she has learned and experienced to help parents discover the true blessing of their child. She has witnessed that once parents understand their spirited children and how they operate, working with them becomes much simpler and more successful.

Tami is passionate about the gifts that spirited children bring to the world. Her mission is to plant seeds of love by bringing greater awareness, understanding, wholeness and sense of belonging to individuals and families. Tami believes spirited children are angels of transformation that come to enrich the lives of those who live with, teach and love them. She is inspired to help others transform parenting into an enjoyable, harmonious spiritual adventure.

To learn more about her spiritual life coaching and channeled messages, click here.